I feel the need to redo, or rather explain my last blogpost, since it apparently got some upset and even worried.
First I should explain Why I wrote anything in the first place, I have for the last year and a half been asked so many times what the relationship I have with him really is about, many of our friends have asked why it's that we are together at all. People ask why we have an open relationship and what it really means.
And the combination of getting asked the same questions so many times, lack of sleep and well be being a bitch is rarely the best thing for anything going well in my life.
//sighs// So lets explain somethings then; we like each other, like spending time together and after sometime fooling around some time ago we became what we are today, and the only real reason we actually put a label on this relationship was because I felt the pressure from other people.
And I did get a comment on my last post; “Don't take me wrong but are you really sure that this is what you want and not what he wants? Open relationship is not for all, there is only a few that can handle this sort of relationship. Still it's your choice in the end and if that makes you happy, go for it.”
And to be honest what I really want is just a silly dream //shrugs// It works so why must I defend it to everyone all the time? //shakes head// It's not a what most calls “normal” but you know what, normal is just not really what I do, if you haven't noticed already. //chuckles// Even if I often strive for normal.
So yeah, not sure this even explained anything, as usual with my post I guess. //sigh// I think I will shut down this blog. Not sure it's giving me anything anymore.
Maybe another time
//Sam
It's good to have dreams even though they are not around the corner just yet. Don't give up on them and they will eventually come true. And yes there is happy endings in real life as well and not only in romanticized stories, where do you think those stories origin from?
ReplyDeleteFrom what I can understand you like this person deeply and you would do anything to be with him. If the people around you are having hard time to understand or even accept this fact that he's the one for you and you like how it is right now, then tell them to chill for a bit and say in a calm voice "I'm a grown women and I know what I'm doing" They will eventually accept that this how you want to live your life and it makes you happy.
The reason a commented on previous post is that my relative is in a open relationship, it took some time for me to accept it and yes I asked the same questions the people have been asking you. I saw the she got a bit bothered by it so I stopped asking her and started to hung out with them more and after a while it became clearer that their decision about the relationship where the right for them. They are still happy and still together. It seems hard right now with all the questions being asked but hang in there, there's always a light shining in the end of the tunnel.
I'm sorry to hear that you are thinking about shutting down your blog, I wish you good luck and hopefully you will have you happy ending to your story. *hugs*
oh, I forgot, I just started my first blog and if you have the time I would like to ask you some advise on how to run a blog.
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